Overcoming Social
Anxiety: The Power of Shame Attacking

Social anxiety can feel overwhelming—heart racing, hands trembling, and the constant worry of being judged. For many, even simple interactions like introducing yourself, making eye contact, or speaking up in a group can feel impossible. At Cognitive Change, we understand these struggles, which is why we’ve created our Shame Attacking Group—a safe, supportive space for practicing courage and building confidence.

What is Shame Attacking?

Shame attacking is a technique used in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to challenge the fear of embarrassment or judgment. The idea is simple but powerful: by intentionally doing something that feels uncomfortable or awkward, participants learn that their fears are often exaggerated—and that they can survive, even thrive, in situations they once avoided.

For example, a shame-attacking exercise might involve:

Each practice helps break down the belief that mistakes or awkward moments are catastrophic. Instead, participants discover that vulnerability can actually lessen anxiety’s grip.

Why Join a Group?

Social anxiety thrives in silence. When you join a group, you gain.

Connection

Realizing you’re not alone in your struggles

Support

Encouragement from peers who understand what you’re going through

Accountability

A structured space to practice and grow

Practical Tools

Evidence-based CBT strategies to apply in daily life

Together, group members celebrate small wins, face challenges head-on, and learn to take steps outside of their comfort zones.

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Take the First Step

Facing fears is never easy, but you don’t have to do it alone. The Shame Attacking Group is a supportive environment where courage is celebrated, mistakes are welcomed, and progress is possible.
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